|Emily AC: Multi-Talented Comedian||
Here's how you always know what your rapist's next move is... how can they get to you???
Every stalker has a method. Think of a stalker as a person that doesn't understand relationships and communication. They behave oddly wherever they go. Many people think of them as either funny or charming.
A stalker is sort of courting their victim. They would like their victim to come to them. For sexual attention. In most cases involving me... I think they would have been satisfied with a sexual relationship--though rough--and once they felt they were getting too attached... they would become violent.
...love feelings scare the psycho/socio. They were not taught how to love. Usually their maternal figure was very abusive and they assume anyone they love like their mother must, secretly, be evil.
When they are turned down... because of superiority complex in... some is their appearance. They hate the guys I date or don't think that should matter if I find them sexy. Again... because they don't understand love.
...it's very sad. This is why I'd rather help psychos than harm them, anymore. My bit is a routine. Just because I can be a badass... doesn't mean I want to be. I choose how to behave. I want to be nice to even those would do me harm... if I think it might prompt a positive change.
The stalker finds a method to secure rape that... works for him once he's turned down.
For example... many choose to use indentity as a way to lure victims. Look and seem pitiful; then the woman thinks he isn't threatening. That's a socio's strategy. Always wonder about a person with odd habits that also has a very obscure identity.
...I'll give two examples, here. Both of sexual confusion identities...
Person A self-identifies as a female. Looks and behaves female. Has a penis and takes a sub-category of transexual.
Walks with poise and calm. Speaks very well. Self-secludes because of ridicule associated with supposed sexual confusion. Learns frequently. Has mostly down-to-earth habits.
Person B self identifies as not having sex. Has penis/identifies as male and hetero. Walks/acts hetero.
Sits in fetal position is the presence of strong-willed females. Complains of mommy issues. Has closed-in posture and often rocks back and forth out in the open public... for all to view.
Person A--although having an identity that may seem odd to some... has displayed a safer persona to both women and men by taking on the identity of a beautiful, poised, mysterious, flirtatious female... that happens to have a penis... for some reason :)
Person B--if you're a woman... you might want to keep contact to public. Because he just displayed for you many characteristics of a serial rapist and/or killer! No joke! Don't be fooled by flowery talk! Make sure that man gives you his clear intent! Look for tells when he's talking to ya'.
...especially if everyone thinks he's the sweetest thing, ever.
But the psycho I'm dealing with is pretty clever...
he's not using obscure methods to send a message! He's very direct! This guy uses his brute strength or his gang to get what he wants.
He knows to strike right away. Because, come on... did you think the cops would believe my story? I didn't! Time is on his side, right now. Most stalkers need more time... because they work, alone.
This guy has a great advantage using a gang... not only is the cover great... especially in this case!
...check it out! Remember that episode of Sherlock when Moriarty is on trial and Sherlock is on the stand??? He talks about how he met the guy for five minutes... An that was more than enough time!
It's the same for me. For a dude like this... anyone would pull a Sherlock looking at how he was acting so bizarrely in public. Waving around like a possessed chimp trying to taunt me.
Our conversation was done mostly in facial expression and gesture... then gang members all over my street the next day. So... it sounds retarded trying to explain to somebody!
"We were squinting in equal agreement... mirroring up and down head movements."
Smart people that get psychology know what I'm talking about! But not cops or dispatch. They never learned street smarts. So sorry to hear that. It would be useful for law enforcement officials to understand it.
...and also to understand that, indeed, gang members make lame fashion statements all the time. I'm not the only one that recognizes this fact, either!
So, yeah... When I saw that he saw that I recognized him, first... He lit up and then our bantor about the incident with the cigarette.
He's pissed because he thinks fear=respect. It doesn't. He is autistic and gets those facial expressions confused. I do respect him at a distance. But I do not respect a sexual invitation when I've made myself quite clear...
...and I will have no respect, at all, for someone that tries to bring physical harm to me. That's stupid. No... I respect those with goodwill-type natures.
If you're a gang member... that's a tough sell. You might want goodwill but grew up in a world of bullshit and this is your option. I get that, completely. I've studied how gangs are formed... It was a horrifying time back when they came to be.
They are not the same as they once were. I do not and can not fear them. I'm concerned that a person can be at such risk when they've just been living their lives...
...but that's a psycho, for ya!