|Emily AC: Multi-Talented Comedian||
Ditched two days in a row for a guardian of sorts to go to Venice beach with. sweet... no... that sux dix.
I REALLY don't want to go alone. But... I fear I must. I know how to handle myself... but I don't really want to be hassled, at all. If I go by myself, people are going to be dicks to me for bringing it up. They always are.
No matter what the conversation about rape is--someone is pointlessly offended.
OK... here's what they've told you about rape. It's the scariest thing, ever (depends on severity--no, that's not offensive... it's true. There's rape where a person is able to heal quickly and there's rape where... blah... you get it).
You should always fight back.
WRONG! DEAD WRONG!
Here's why: the psychopath is excited by movement. It is a fight they want. Psychos ALWAYS want a fight. So if you're faced with a psycho that you can't overcome--your body is supposed to make you stiff as a board. I KNOW THIS FROM EXPERIENCE SO SHUT UP!
Your brain knows what to do when your emotions are working, correctly. When the psycho sees you scared stiff they lessen their attack. Newbie rapist becomes a curious creature. Tenured rapist will first try to hit you and when you don't move... THEY LOSE INTEREST!
Only fight back if you know you can win. Don't talk your way out of it unless you're not afraid AT ALL. The psycho picked you because he thought you were vulnerable--don't try and pull a bluff if you aren't a good actress.
A person who's raped is a victim.
Yes, technically... of that incident! Not forever! Your life is not destroyed! You are still YOU! You just get emotional for a while and you have to work things through. You can.. it's difficult... but you can.
We are being controlled by psychos that tell us everything wrong. Don't fear a rapist! They are BIG BABIES! WHINEY, SISSY, LITTLE BABIES! I tell these fuckers off, in my opinion, more often than I've ever even HEARD of! It's a serious ego boost to watch them run from ME! LITTLE BITTY ME!
But I really fear misunderstanding and then immediate ridicule over it. Women, especially, think that I have no right to say that rapists aren't to be feared. They say all rape is the same.
Not quite. You would prefer just a rape to a rape and a beating or murder. Don't forget that. Of course there's a difference. All bastards are special snowflakes and they do their own twisted things...
It's a tough subject--but we should be adults and we should be able to openly discuss the climate for women without lambasting one another! If you go straight to insults--we will never fully understand what's going on (well, you won't. I will and so will any other petite and cute woman that accidentally smiles in broad daylight walking down the street near a psycho. But you know what? It's not your problem, right?)
So... uhlll... when to go, then.